Minimalist living is a stress-free way of living when you simplify your life. Fewer belongings, more space, less quantity, and more quality- who wouldn’t want all of those things?
We used to look around our house and feel like we didn’t own our things- our things owned us. They took up so much space in our house!
How did we accumulate so much stuff? How did we begin to outgrow our 1,200 square foot home, even before we had any kids?
Every time we approach spring or summer, it ends up on my list of goals to make more of a minimalist home.
I’m pretty sure it’s time we consider taking a weekend to seriously get organized and have a garage sale!
Let’s talk about what minimalist living really looks like and how you can get rid of things and live with less- without compromising on your own happiness.
What Does Minimalist Living Look Like?
I think in general the best way anyone would describe minimalist living is with two words: tidy and simple.
In other words, simplify your life in ways that benefit you.
Picture decluttered rooms (no junk stashed under beds or up on closet shelves), space on a bookshelf to actually see the shelf itself, open spaces and gleaming counters, and smiling faces all around.
Why? Because the whole point of the trend of minimalist living is to have less stuff to dominate your life, so you spend less time working on your stuff and have more time to spend as you want to — time on hobbies or time to just enjoy some family togetherness.
You might realize that there’s a pretty strong overlap between the frugal lifestyle and minimalist living. Both embody the idea of the possibility of living well on little money, although this is where they can also differ.
Minimalist living might end up saving you money in the long run, as you’re buying less “stuff,” but it is not necessarily driven by saving money wherever possible. The goal is being clutter-free, living with less, it isn’t necessarily about money as it is about less complicated home life.
Someone living a frugal lifestyle will also save money due to buying less “stuff,” the things they buy may likely still be of a cheaper sticker price than the exact comparable item that a minimalist would buy.
So while these two lifestyles can overlap significantly, they’re also likely to differ significantly.
Why Become A Minimalist?
Some people may see minimalism as living with nothing, but that’s not it! You get rid of clutter and things you don’t really use or need, but you do so to spend less time cleaning and have less stress around your home.
There are a number of benefits to minimalist living, not the least of which is saving money and having less to clean!
Who doesn’t want to spend less time cleaning??
Some other benefits might include:
- More free time
- Feel happier with less stress
- Live a more eco-friendly life
- Minimize financial worries
- Have more meaningful relationships with friends and family
Minimalist Living – Where To Start?
There’s no reason to go extreme when you get started- don’t get rid of everything and anything just yet! Owning less isn’t just getting rid of it all at the beginning!
The simplest way to get started is to remember this: look around a room for items you label as “junk” or “just taking up space”
Find those things that 90% of the time drive you crazy and you don’t even know why you have them! Especially if you don’t use them.
You know the phrase- use it or LOSE IT! Don’t be afraid to say goodbye!
then you’ve found some things to start finding new homes for, be it the donation center or the garbage can.
You can also start to consider the pros and cons of various aspects of your lifestyle.
- Is your home significantly larger than your family could ever need? Consider downsizing.
- Is owning a home really a smart idea for singles or young couples? Consider looking into homesharing on Airbnb.
- Does that first home you have your eye on have enough space for the size of the family you’re planning? It might be better for your specific situation to buy a larger “forever home” and skip the starter home step (to save money and time in the long run), but know that you do run the risk of having too much space you’ll be tempted to fill up! Then again, with less stuff, you might not really need so big of a house!
- Do you find yourself constantly feeling like a slave to the “stuff” in your home? Neverending laundry, dusting a million knick-knacks while cleaning each week, etc.? It might be time to start thinking about making a donation run.
If you can identify even just a few areas of your life where simplifying would give you noticeable benefits, then I’d say it’s time you just dive in and get started!
How To Live Minimally
There is honestly no reason that you can’t or shouldn’t get started on making your life look more like a minimalist today, right now! True, while minimalist living with a family might be a little trickier than with just a single person or couple’s home, this list of ideas to get you started will help ANY family start getting back to simple living.
Here is how you can start changing your life today for a better tomorrow.
1. Get rid of collections for a minimalist lifestyle
Collections cost money and take up space. A collection of designer handbags are going to do both- cost a lot of money and take up space. Try to sell your collection on Amazon or eBay.
I have a collection of mugs. At the end of the school year, I was given two more mugs as gifts. Instead of adding them to my collection, I got rid of two more. I keep them in a small cabinet next to the coffee maker. With time, my mug collection will become minimal, but for now, it is hard to give it up.
2. Use the library
Libraries are underutilized. We have so many books that sit on our bookcases. The first step we can do is donate books we have read or sell our used books online!
The second is to take books out we want to read. While on the path to minimalist living library books will become your favorite thing!
With having a due date to return the books, we are pressured to read them and return in time. I don’t know how many times I stopped and started books because time gets away from you. A deadline will keep you motivated. Our library also has DVDs that you can take out for free! Beats any Redbox price.
3. Simplify meals
This minimalist way means more now to me than ever! I just cleaned out my pantry and spice rack. So many items were thrown out because they had expired. When I try to make fancy meals, I end up buying unique ingredients where the recipe calls for a teaspoon, and then it sits in my pantry for years until it becomes expired.
By simplifying meals, the ingredients are simplified. Build meals off of what you have instead of buying new items. Another great option is using a service like $5 Meal Plan to help with keeping meals simple.
4. De-clutter rooms
If you feel like your stuff is owning you and taking over your house, it’s time to say adios!
People live with so many things they don’t even use, and you can sell them on Decluttr, in a garage sale, on Facebook Marketplace, or simply just donate it and be done.
In preparation for a garage sale, I have continued to declutter our house room by room.
Plus, when our local church has its summer flea market, we use this time to box up anything we have not used over the year.
The areas we have spent the most time in decluttering are our closets and the kitchen. Clothes pill, shrink and change over the year. Check out your wardrobe and adjust. Do you really need that many pairs of jeans?
Our biggest problem with our kitchen is small appliances. If you haven’t used it in a year, clearly you can do without. Donate it or sell it!
If you have a small kitchen like us, making the most out of your space is crucial to a functioning kitchen. Consider investing in quality items that can serve many purposes, like an instant pot (your meal planning/prep will thank you for it).
Having a decluttered house will help if you ever want to rent out your free space to make money fast on the side. Minimizing personal items would help with the potential of someone wanting to share our home through Airbnb.
5. Step up your cleaning game
In addition to decluttering, you should also challenge yourself to keep flat surfaces as clean as possible. Yes, that might well mean that your work desk at home has your computer and maybe a cup to hold a couple of pens, and that’s about it.
How does this help you live a more minimalist lifestyle?
If you can’t store things on a flat surface in the open, that means you’ll have no choice but to find a “home” for it. If you run out of spots to store things, well, then clearly you’ve got too many things!
While you’re at it, also try to make sure that everything is ALWAYS in its proper “home” when not in use, or at least do a once per day pick-up to put things back.
Dishes should be rinsed and put in a dishwasher (if not washed and put away immediately), laundry belongs in a hamper (or washing!), and mail should be sorted and filed as soon as it comes in the house, not left on the counter or desk to stack up until it’s almost unmanageable.
6. Travel light
Traveling light is a hard one for me. I like to be prepared and have options while away. As I adopt a minimalist lifestyle, I know I will have to change my ways.
For a lot of people, this can be hard. I have picked up a lot of travel hacks over the years to help cut back on my packing.
My favorite has been TSA approved reusable travel bottles. They are great for weekend camping or trips to the Caribbean.
7. Say no!
Saying no is easy for me. If you just read my article on saying no, you might wonder how that would apply to a minimalist lifestyle.
Simple! When my in-laws moved, they asked us if we wanted a lot of what they were getting rid of. Saying no allowed us to make sure we were not inheriting clutter that we didn’t need in our house.
One thing you can say no to is a bigger house. Having a bigger house is a problem on many levels, so make sure you’re not making any mistakes when you’re planning on buying your first home!
When you purchase a bigger house it can make minimalist living more difficult. You may be tempted to fill the voids around the home, rather than be content living with less.
You pay for more rooms- many of which you may not even use! Such a waste of money, for many people.
First, your budget is going to be hurting when you have a large mortgage to pay for every month. Then, the larger the house the more money is attached to owning, upkeeping, taxes, etc.
Why get a house bigger than you need? Life is about adventure and creating memories!
The bigger your house the more constricted your life actually becomes. The second issue is it allows for more “stuff” to be filled to take up space. You will need to purchase more furniture and room decor. Just say no!
8. Become more eco-friendly
Find ways to make your products more eco-friendly. Reuse and repurpose things around your house. For example, instead of buying costly rolls of paper towels, buy reusable paperless towels that you can wash.
In order to save money and become more eco-friendly, we bought the Nest thermostat. The Nest learns our living patterns and makes the adjustments to optimize our heating and cooling systems.
Taking the initiative today will save you money and help our beautiful planet for years to come.
9. Choose multi-functional over single-purpose items
When we say multi-functional, we mean things like a couch that doubles as a bed, a multitool or Swiss Army knife instead of a full toolbox- or maybe you think of a good old spork?
I’ll use makeup as an example here since I know many of us have our favorites- and then the stash of extras we never use!
Let’s say you’re one of those girls who has one product each for eyebrows, blush, bronzer, concealer, foundation, lipstick, eyeliner, eye shadow, etc? That’s 8 items alone, and I doubt most girls just have ONE eye shadow any way!
Lately, I’ve seen a lot of products that can double as blush and eyeshadow, concealer and highlighter, or brow pencil and eyeliner. Doesn’t it make more sense to not just simplify your costs, but your storage and your routine as well?!
10. Budget for less so that you buy less
As you work on your budget every month, if you give yourself room to spend on your clothing, miscellaneous, eating out, or “fun” budget categories, you’ll find it much easier to spend more money than you really need to spend.
By giving yourself less wiggle room in these categories (and working on actively shrinking it month to month), you’ll find yourself having much more cash available to do better things with, such as investing for retirement, saving an emergency fund, or even putting towards your next big purchase to avoid taking on more debts.
Less impulse shopping is very beneficial, on your house space and your wallet!
11. Buy large when it makes sense
Along with simplifying your meals, buying bulk sizes can make a lot of sense for minimalist living, as long as you’re doing it right!
If you’re stockpiling everything and anything purely because it’s on sale/at a great price, whatever, then you’re doing it wrong.
If you limit yourself to only using potatoes or rice for side dishes (and NEVER use pasta), then buying 20lbs of those when they’re on sale makes a lot of sense. Sure, you’ll have a little bit more to store than you absolutely need right this minute, but in the long run, you’re at least taking up space with something you’ll really get your value from, AND you’re saving money. Win-win!
12. Save your money – until it absolutely makes sense to spend it
Minimalism on a lower income is definitely tricky – you might not even really have much money left over to save each month.
You can start to save your money for both your peace of mind security and for those incredible memories you want to build.
Since minimalism values stuff very low and experience very high, this is where the financial (and frugal) aspect really hits home. You can achieve minimalist living in ways that anyone would find enjoyable, so long as you keep your focus and “keep your eyes on the prize!“.
13. Simplify your finances
Minimal living is mostly about the things in your life, but you can’t forget about one of the things that make the world go round!
Saving money and spending less aren’t exactly the goals of minimalist living, but it is easily a good habit to restructure your habits for living with less.
In addition to getting out of debt, you should also look to operate your budget on a much more streamlined system, like simple budget templates.
Have accounts for retirement, emergency savings, etc. as appropriate, but rather than having multiple savings accounts to save for a wider variety of things, try using one (separate from your emergency fund, of course), and tracking your savings progress with something like a simple spreadsheet or a budgeting program like Empower.
The same goes for checking accounts. Many people think it’s useful to have one checking account for paying utilities/fixed bills, one for flexible costs (like groceries or clothing), and another for “fun money.” This (in conjunction with the multiple savings accounts) is a really good way to forget exactly how much money you have as well as what you’re using it all for.
Some other ways to simplify your finances are:
- If you do use credit cards (and can avoid falling into their many traps), limit yourself to using just one credit card. You’ll be able to keep a better handle on your spending if you’re not spreading your costs over multiple semi-hidden sources.
- Get out of debt as fast as you possibly can (if you haven’t already)!
- Remove recurring expenses wherever possible (how many streaming services do you really need?).
14. Stay grateful
Living with less and owning less can make you more grateful and appreciative of the things you have in your life.
This is the last on the list not because it’s the least important or least useful tip, but because it’s the hardest one to do for many people, not just those looking to achieve minimalist living.
We all often forget just how much we DO have to be thankful for, every day, no matter how bad the rest of our life may look at any given moment.
If you’re constantly wishing for things you don’t have, you’re setting yourself up to want to surround yourself with “stuff.” You’re negating all the hard work you’ve done to eliminate unnecessary items and learn to regularly use and value what you do still have.
Even if you wish your car was nicer/newer, your house was cleaner, or your paycheck was bigger, stop and take a moment to appreciate what things look like right now, so that you can be in the right mindset to truly appreciate things when they become even better down the road.